1. Focusing Only on the Diamond Size

Learn about diamond quality and the 4Cs. Yes, carat matters. But a bigger diamond doesn’t automatically mean a better ring. Cut, clarity, and colour all affect how a diamond looks — and sparkles.

Avoid it: Focus on overall quality and proportions. A well-cut 1.00ct diamond can outshine a dull 1.50ct.

2. Not Knowing What They Actually Like

Explore solitaire engagement rings or see halo ring styles. Surprise is great — unless the style is completely off. Rings are personal. Some love minimalist solitaires, others want halos or something vintage-inspired.

Avoid it: Pay attention to what they wear. Ask friends or family. Or better yet, ring shop together and narrow it down.

3. Forgetting About the Wedding Band

Browse wedding rings or check out engagement and wedding ring sets. The engagement ring is just half the story. Some settings don’t pair well with a wedding band - or need a custom fit.

Avoid it: Look at the full picture. Check how the setting will sit next to a band. Some designs (like solitaires) are easier to match than halos or clusters.

4. Guessing the Ring Size

Too big? Too small? Either way, it takes away from the moment. Resizing is common - but not always simple.

Avoid it: Borrow a ring they already wear on that finger (if possible) or trace it. Not sure? Sizing up slightly is often safer - it’s easier to take a ring in than out. For more tips, visit our full ring size guide.

5. Prioritising Trends Over Longevity

Shop timeless engagement rings. Trends come and go. But this ring is meant to last. Some trendy styles can feel dated quickly — or might not suit them long-term.

Avoid it: Go with something that reflects their style, not just what’s popular right now. Timeless doesn’t mean boring - it means lasting.